I have a great friend from highschool who makes beautiful jewelry. After Andie died she made me a necklace with several charms on it that had significant meaning to me. Recently I commissioned a new one to add to the collection. It is a charm with the date of Andie's death on the back and the word "PUSH" on the front. A daily reminder for me that I can push on, I will push on, and I have to push on.